ra keh faheshe ha mishenavand ra , beshnavand[1] , va hamintor pedaran va baradaran va shoharan va doost pesarane ( ehtemali ) un khanoomha .
4 : ghanoon bayad tory faheshe ha ra mahdood konad keh , unha natavanand daramad balayy dashteh bashand , shayad beporsid chera? Yeki az sadeh tarin javab ha in ast : farz konid yek zan baray mohandes ya doctor shodan , hadaghal bist sal dars mikhanad va baad az inkeh oo be shoghl mored nazarash ( baad az bist sal ) miresad va shorooe be kar mikonad daramady hampayeh ba yek faheshe (va dar mavaredy hata kamtar az oo ) khahad dasht , dar hali keh un faheshe zahmati baray bedast avardane in mogheyat shoghly nakeshideh ast ; aya benazar shoma in udelaneh ast ?
betor hatm in udelane nist[2] .
5: digar mahdoodiati keh bayad nesbat beh shoghl faheshe ha soorat girad in ast keh : unha bayad taht control va zir nazar doctor ha bashand ham bekhater salamat khodeshan va ham bekhater salamat moshtarie shan va ham bekhater salamat jame e , va baray ejray in masale ma niazmand moasese ee ghanoony hastim va be onvan tozih sadeh tar , ma niazmand faheshe khaneh hastim .
6 : baray jelogiry az harjo marj va ghabel ejra boodan yek faheshe khaneh bayad yek asas nameh besiar kamely baray faheshe khaneh tahyeh gardad keh dar un hoghoogh va ravabet moteghabel bein faheshe ha va moshtarian unha ra besoorat kamel tozih dadeh bashad , va in asas nameh bayad tavasot pezeshkan va ravanshenasan va digar afrad motkhases marbooteh , tanzim gardad .
7 : nokteh besiar mohemi keh ghanoon bayad dar tabligh va hemayat va eemal un bekooshad in ast keh : moshtarian va jame e bayad bedanand keh , faheshe ha faghat baray in moheghe daryaft pool hastand : , chon unha mipazirand keh yek sex moshtari mehvar dashteh bashand va moshtarian unha bekhater pooli keh mipardazand hagh darand keh yek sex moshtari mehvar ra , az unha bekhahand va dar jame e hich shakhsy hagh nadarad keh bekhater sex az kasy pooly ya emtiazy daryaft konad [3]
fasl hashtom : dalayel va angizeh hayy keh baes entekhab in shoghl mishavand che hastand ?
moghadameh :
dar aksar mavared yek dalil ya angizeh beh tanhayy baes nemishavad keh yek fard beh in kar rooy biavarad va dalayel va angizeh hay un ra mitavan beh seh dasteh bozorg e , mohity daroony va tavarosy taghsim bandy kard [4] va dar in ketab nevisandeh bedalil ravanshenas naboodan va nadashtan emkanat tahghigh va nadashtan etela ut umari , tanha beh bayan tedady teory dar in mored mipardazad .[5]
1 dalil avval : yeki az mohem tarin dalayeli keh besiari az faheshe ha bekhater un beh in kar dast mizanand , vaziat bad eghtesady ast , albateh in masaleh beh tanhayy dalil entekhab in shoghl nist , vali yeki az dalayel besiar ghavi ee ast keh unha ra beh un samt sogh midahad .
2 dalil dovvom : yeki digar az dalayeli keh unha beh in kar dast mizanand , taghaza va entezar jame e ast , farz konid yek fard dar yek sherkat mashghool beh kar ast , hal beh har dalil ba oo tory rafter mishavad keh oo zaheran fardy ast keh ba moghtanam shemordan avvalin forsat , ghasd dozdy az un sherkat ra darad , in shakhs taht feshar asabi ziady ast , harkas dar in sharayet aksol amal khas khod ra darad , dasteh e az afrad aksol amaleshan in ast keh , tasmim migirand keh vaghean az un sherkat dozdy konand [6]
in masaleh dar mored entekhab bazi az afrad baray faheshe shodan niz sedgh mikonad , yani vaghty jame e va mohit atrafeshan az unha chenin entezary darad va unha ra beh faheshe boodan motaham mikonad unha aksol amaleshan in mishavad keh vaghean faheshe shavand .
3 dalil va angizeh digary keh bazi az zanan be in kar rooy miavarand in ast keh , unha daray in tafakor hastand keh vaghty ba yek mard rabeteh jensy bargharar mikonand bayad a zoo emtiazy ya pooly daryaft konand va un ra hagh mossalam khod midanand , vali dalily manteghy baray in noe tarz fekr nadarand .
4 dalil digary keh tedady az zanan beh in kar dast mizanand , tojih rafter nahanjareshan ast [7] baray tozih bishtar bayad begooyam keh , in dasteh az zanan be dalayel moteadedy khahan bargharary rabeteh jensy ba mardan moteadedy hastand [8] vali chon ehsas mikonand momken ast mored tanafor va paszadegy bishtar jame e va atrafian gharar begirand khod ra jozv dasteh faheshe hay nachar va niazmand pool ja mizanand [9] , dar hali keh momken
ast az vaze mali
fasl nohom : barrasi faheshe ha az lahaze shakhsiati
moghadameh :
baray barrasi daghighe shakhsiate har shakhs , behtar ast keh yek team ravanshenas va ravankav be tahghigh bepardazand ta betavanand hagh matlab ra bekhooby ada konand ; vali ghasd ketabe nevisandeh , barrasi takhasosy va elmi in matlab nist , va un ham beh do dalil ast : 1 : nevisandeh tavanayy va emkanate elmy in kar ra nadarad 2 : nevisandeh bar in eteghad ast keh , ketabhay elmi va takhasosy tanha baray jamiat ghalily az jame e keh tavanayy dark unra darand monaseb ast .
ba tavajoh beh tozihaty keh dade shod , nevisandeh ghasd darad keh tanha koliati ra dar in mored begooyad .
beh nazar nevisandeh tamam ensunha az lahaz salamat ravani beh 4 dasteh taghsim mishavand 1 afrady keh az salamat kamel ravani barkhordarand 2 afrady keh az salamat ravanie mamool barkhordarand 3 afrady keh daray moshgelat ravany hastand 4 afrady keh daray moshgelat ravani shadid hastand ; va be nazare nevisande afrade jame e ye iran bishtar dar daste ye dovvom va sevvom gharar darand va daste ye avval ra bishtar dar yek jame e ye eede ul ,ya yek arman shahr mitavan yaft .
vali ghabl az inke bekhahim faheshe ha ra az lahaze shakhsiaty va salamate ravani morede barrasi gharar dahim , behtar ast dar aghaz beporsim ke : tarife ma az salamate ravani chist ?
shayad avvalin javaby keh beh zehn beresad in bashad ke : har farde daraye rafttare mamool va normal va behanjar ra , mitavan yek sahakhse salem az lahaze ravani namid ; vali in taariff dorost nist , (miporsid chera ? )[10]
farz konid mardane jazire ye koochaki adat be zadane zananeshan dashte bashand va zananeshan ham az inke kotak mikhorand lezat mibarand , raftare unha az tarafe jame e ye unha behanjar va motabegh ba meyarhaye jame e yeshan ast , vali aya raftare unha raftary salem ast ?
na , salem nist va dorost nist , chon natije ye bady darad va hade aghal natije ye bade un , in ast ke : zan asibe jesmy mibinad .
ba tavajoh be tozihate bala nevisande mikhahad in natije ra begirad ke : baraye ghezavat dar morede salem boodan va ya naboodane yek rafter , bayad be natije ye un raftar bengarim va nabayad be tarife gharardady jame e dar morede salem boodan va ya naboodane yek raftar tavajoh konim , chon guhy hatta raftarhayy ke natayeje bady darand bekhatere tekrare ziadeshan dar jame e , be onvane raftary salem az sooye jame e ghalamdad mishavand
hala mitavanim begooyim ke faheshe ha az lahaze shakhsiaty be do daste ye omde ye zir taghsim mishavand :
1 faheshe hayy ke raftary nasalem (raftary ke natije ye bady darad ) darand
2 faheshe hayy ke raftary salem
[1] Albateh in masaleh do vajh darad , motaham shodan be onvan yek faheshe ,yek tohin bozorg az taraf fara khod (super ego) ast vali shenidan harfhayy dar rabeteh ba sex masaleh ee matloob az taraf nahad ( id ) ast .
[2] Harche dar jame e edalate kamtary vojood dashte bashad jame e be samte bi nazmi ye bishtary miravad .
[3] nevisandeh dar fasl panjom , bakhsh avval , dar mored in masaleh tozih dadeh ast .
[4] az nazar ravanshenasan rafter va amalkard har ensan az in se umel tasir mipazirad .
[5] Shayad nevisandeh dar baznegarihay baady in kar ra mofasal tar anjum dahad .
[6] makhsoosan zamany mosammam tar in tasmim ra migirand keh un tajrobeh ra baray chandomin bar dashteh bashand .
[7] be bayad ha va nabayad hay ja oftadeh va pazirofteh shodeh hanjar migooyym
[8] Bazi az dalayeleshan yeksan ba dalayel mardan baray in rafter ast vali na tamam dalayeleshan , masalan yeki az dalayeleshan rafter moghabele beh mesl ba mardan ast .
[9] raftar faheshe hay niaz mand beh pool va nachar , az lahaz jame e be hanjar tar ast .
[10] Behtar ast dalile unra , ba avardane mesali tozih daham .
